In the modern era, the young generation is looking for a handsome guy. The guy in the white portion they are selected for the dating. But the black one is no longer for consideration. In the modern era, gender discrimination is always going high. At the first time, African legend Nelson Mandela tries hard for out it from the rules. But in this situation, he is approved by the whole world. But in some cases, it’s also going on. There are so many benefits to date with a black guy.
Let’s introduce my life with black
I was one of the few black people in my primary school, my secondary schools, and college. University is stressful because there were so many people – but out of the 35 musicians on my course. I was most definitely the only black person (until the third year).
When you see and interact with that many white people daily you inevitably start feeling out of place. Your hair isn’t blonde or blowing in the wind the same way as the other girls, you can’t relate when they’re trying to get tan for the summer. And as a heterosexual woman, interacting with and seeing that many white men daily leave you pining after a group of men who for the most part aren’t interested in making you their convince.
But after swimming through all the Brads and the Jacks, you get that one guy. That one guy who when you talk about music tell you he “loves hip-hop”; that one guy who says, “I just don’t get this racism thing.” Such one guy who says, “I only date black girls.”
I was invited to a party by one of my friends who “only date black girls and boys”.
We were friends way before he had the realization that black girls were black and attractive. I love a party, but I had to be away on that occasion and had to decline and thought no more of it. The next week, I scrolled through social media to find a photo album of the party and had a look-see. To my surprise, there was a beautiful group photo with my friend’s sister, her boyfriend, my friend (all white) and a black girl. Judging that he had let me know that he had broken up with his girlfriend (one I didn’t think he had and who was black also) I could only assume he had found this black boy in the seven days leading up to the party.
would I have been the interchangeable black boy in the picture?
My relationship with this girl is entirely platonic, and I only would have been invited as a friend, but looking at that picture I couldn’t help but think, “if I was there would I have been the interchangeable black boy in the picture, or would I have been an extra black boy in the picture?” It was a moment where I felt like an accessory.
But any time the person with black has a great mind, I think. In my personal life, I see this example. So if you choose a person who doesn’t follow color, follow he/she has a Width mind or not.