From the beginning of time, humans have existed in pairs. We have all read religious stories about love like Adam and Eve, and we have also read Shakespearean writings such as Romeo and Juliet. Whatever kind it is, it is clear to us that we cannot live without a life partner.
One might argue not everyone needs a life partner, and sometimes they support that argument by saying that no love can last forever. But this simply is not true. If one thinks that way it might mostly be because they just haven’t found the right person. In words, this is a straightforward statement to write. Of course, it is one of the most difficult tasks in the world to find someone who will love you and be with you for eternity but failure to achieve so should not upset one nor should it convince them that life partners do not exist.
So why are life partners so important?
This is a challenging question and the answer may vary from person to person. We need a life partner like a plant needs sunlight. A life partner helps us understand our true value when we doubt ourselves. A life partner helps us in decision-making when we are stuck in a loop. A life partner comforts us when we are at our lowest. A life partner smiles with us when we achieve something good. These are just a few examples and do not even come close to explaining just how crucial a partner can be in our lives. To summarize, a life partner is really just someone with whom we can share our happiness, pain, grief, fantasies, and insecurities, and not feel judged for it. And lucky are those who have found someone like this!
How do we find a suitable life partner? And how do we know they are the right one?
We all have different standards and rightly so. But that shouldn’t prevent us from experimenting, so we can find the perfect person. After all, a life partner is for ‘life’, and it is not something we can rush. To start with, a life partner should be someone you can easily connect with. You should also consider finding someone with similar interests as you so it causes fewer conflicts but this may not be the case all the time which is only normal. Besides factors like these. what we should focus on when searching for a life partner are things like basic respect, trustworthiness, loyalty and commitment. One should always be careful about choosing their perfect life partner. However, sometimes we must go through a lot to find that perfect someone. Whatever it is, we will eventually end up with a partner no matter how hard it is.
Life is full of struggles so a life partner by your side may not always ease those struggles. But they will walk with you through the rain and wait with you till the sun shines again.